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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 11:34:01 GMT -5
Thoughts on this?
Saw an article this morning with a pic of some lady with boob exposed in the toy section of target. Her beta was pushing her around in some kind of cart.
I'm not a fan of this particular scenario. I get it, breastfeeding is tough. I'm not opposed to boobs being out. But I am all about decency when it comes to kids being around. Toy section in target is going to likely have some kids hanging around.
What are your thoughts on this?
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 11:39:54 GMT -5
Let them do it for three simple reasons.
1. While we may treat the breasts as a sex organ, it is not one. 2. It in most states is legal for a woman to be topless just like man, pretty much because of reason 1. 3. Lots of benefits to breastfeeding, which means less likely that kid gonna grow up to stab you or something.
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Post by Tapout on Oct 4, 2016 11:43:19 GMT -5
Something similar happened to me a few years back at a Panera. Might have even made a post about it.
Packed place. No seats. Im eating my classic café salad with Tuna, and I look up, and less then 5 feet from me, this lady whips out her tube sock titty, with her dinner plate nips, and forcefully starts cramming this nipple in her screaming kids mouth. I had no where else to look. Normally, I wouldn't have cared, but there was a time and place for everything. I was uncomfortable. And it takes me a lot to get there.
I cant stand the argument that "Its a natural thing". So is pissing. I don't do that in Panera bread.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 11:47:54 GMT -5
Let them do it for three simple reasons. 1. While we may treat the breasts as a sex organ, it is not one. 2. It in most states is legal for a woman to be topless just like man, pretty much because of reason 1. 3. Lots of benefits to breastfeeding, which means less likely that kid gonna grow up to stab you or something. 1. I don't want my nephew to see a boob in the toy section at target 2. I don't want other children to see a boob in the toy section. 3. I don't want to see an ugly chicks boob in the toy section Its all about decency here, not the benefits of breastfeeding. Go find a bench. Or cover up. Or go to a more adult oriented section of the store. It's the mother fucking toy section. And we have deemed a woman's breasts as part of a sexual part on her. Hence why women will put themselves through the horrors of breast implants.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 11:51:05 GMT -5
Something similar happened to me a few years back at a Panera. Might have even made a post about it. Packed place. No seats. Im eating my classic café salad with Tuna, and I look up, and less then 5 feet from me, this lady whips out her tube sock titty, with her dinner plate nips, and forcefully starts cramming this nipple in her screaming kids mouth. I had no where else to look. Normally, I wouldn't have cared, but there was a time and place for everything. I was uncomfortable. And it takes me a lot to get there. I cant stand the argument that "Its a natural thing". So is pissing. I don't do that in Panera bread. That would have made me uncomfortable a bit as well. But the one I'm talking about...me and her beta would have had some words if my 8 yo nephew had been with me.
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Post by Tapout on Oct 4, 2016 11:56:35 GMT -5
Something similar happened to me a few years back at a Panera. Might have even made a post about it. Packed place. No seats. Im eating my classic café salad with Tuna, and I look up, and less then 5 feet from me, this lady whips out her tube sock titty, with her dinner plate nips, and forcefully starts cramming this nipple in her screaming kids mouth. I had no where else to look. Normally, I wouldn't have cared, but there was a time and place for everything. I was uncomfortable. And it takes me a lot to get there. I cant stand the argument that "Its a natural thing". So is pissing. I don't do that in Panera bread. That would have made me uncomfortable a bit as well. But the one I'm talking about...me and her beta would have had some words if my 8 yo nephew had been with me. Didn't mean to change the subject, but that's what I was getting at. if I was uncomfortable, a grown man, that's seens a dozen or so tits in person, it wasn't for a childs eyes.
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 11:57:20 GMT -5
Man, for a bunch of self proclaimed alpha males, you are bigger thin-skinned babies than the one sucking on the titties.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 12:06:28 GMT -5
Man, for a bunch of self proclaimed alpha males, you are bigger thin-skinned babies than the one sucking on the titties. But I can stay gainfully employed...and don't forget I qualify for disability as well... So while you come up with excuse after excuse, Ive come up with paycheck after paycheck. Just saying... The issue here is she has her boob out in the toy section. Are you that fucking thick?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 12:35:01 GMT -5
Time and place apply to an extent. But you can't control when your kid is hungry. I've been out in public with my wife when the kids were still on the tit, and there is a pretty cheap, simple, easy solution. They're called "boppies" and are basically just a very thin sheet that has a neck hole for the mom. So she puts this thing on, puts the kid under it and slams the tit in their mouth. No one sees any boobs, no free shows if you will, and the kid gets to eat.
Best part? I bought like five of them at Target before my oldest was born.
There's no need to make a fucking production out of everything. Just cover the kid and your tits up while doing it and it solves every problem associated with this issue.
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Post by sooner2 on Oct 4, 2016 13:04:36 GMT -5
My wife is still breast feeding. We try to set up public trips between feeds but sometimes you have to feed in public. She uses the shoulder sheet thing as much as possible and if a restaurant is really crowded she will use a bathroom or our car at times. On flights and trips , most airports have feed stations. If we have to feed in a restaurant , we will face the back of the place near a bathroom and I will sit in view of her to further break up the sight lanes. On long car trips we stop at hotels and usually their dning lobbies are empty and we will have he feed in the back. I've never really felt that we have offended someone in public. Once on a fight our seats were moved and instead of sitting side by side in a two seat section as we booked ... We were moved to a three seat group . Thankfully , a 60 year old woman next to us and let my wife have the window so that she could feed as far from sight lanes as possible. Plenty of solutions available to avoid overt awkwardness .
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Post by Premier on Oct 4, 2016 13:34:03 GMT -5
There seems to be a movement on FB about this. Where they compare a ton of other stuff that they claim is more offensive that feeding. It's like a bunch of feminist got together and decided to force feed (No pun) us this boos issues.
YOU WILL LOOK AT BOOB WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 13:54:57 GMT -5
There seems to be a movement on FB about this. Where they compare a ton of other stuff that they claim is more offensive that feeding. It's like a bunch of feminist got together and decided to force feed (No pun) us this boos issues. YOU WILL LOOK AT BOOB WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT. Brings up an interesting consideration though, who determines if a boob is triggering enough to not be shown in public? You are disgusted by it fine, but then should we not allow open carry because of people disgusted by guns? Should we not allow meat to be eaten in public as to not disgust vegans? Should gingers be forced to wear burkas or hats as to not offend people who thing gingers steal souls? Instead, how about you just do what you can do yourself to avoid your triggers (I laugh knowing you are triggered by breasts now by the way). Look away. Just like if you don't like someone on TV you can't change the channel, you can turn your neck and look in a different direction.
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Post by Premier on Oct 4, 2016 14:16:29 GMT -5
It's not a trigger for me at all. I am neutral on the issue. It has not affected me so far, either way. Just pointing out that this is a heavy issue on Facebook. And as always, it seems to be one group bullying the other.
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Post by peAk on Oct 4, 2016 15:03:22 GMT -5
I am okay with it but agree a sheet and/or some privacy is best practice.
It's kind of funny that we are offended by a kid sucking a boob but not of some of the other crazy shit we see out there.
This is really just an American hangup.
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Post by kristhegreasedpig on Oct 4, 2016 15:13:45 GMT -5
It's a fucking tit. Get over it and grow the fuck up, is how I look at it.
Do you bitch about low cut shirts in the toy section? How about booty shorts? It's a fucking body and we all have one, they are nipples feeding a kid. Don't like it, look elsewhere. Don't want your kids to see icky things- keep them locked up! Otherwise you might have to actually have a discussion with a kid about appropriate responses and how to deal with a situation that you don't care for. Oh my fucking God?!?
Sorry, but tits out are one of the last things anybody should worry about, and if they bug you, then it's your Hangup.
It's funny, but nobody ever bitched about breastfeeding when I was around- but then again I'm just a 6' 240# beta at the time. All of the alpha tough guys must not have been around- cause I would love to have a discussion about how their pussy Alpha sensitivities were more important than my child's nutrition.
By the way- the ex was discreet, but those covers (along with bottles and soothers) did not work with our kids- they wouldn't eat covered up. Difference between feeding a kid and "hey everybody watch me feed!"
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 15:34:55 GMT -5
I don't have a problem with it except for the people who do it all of the time and make no attempt to be discrete or cover up. There are women who use their tits as a pacifier and will plug their kid in 5-10 different times in the course of an hour... that is annoying. To me breast feeding in public should be more of an emergency than something that is done without any attempt to plan around it
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Post by MMAJim on Oct 4, 2016 15:48:53 GMT -5
I didn't know I logged into the liberal trigger forum. Directly to the point, kids of any age can handle seeing a baby breast fed. The number one thing I have learned about being a dad is that children are sponges for knowledge and they understand things better than we can if we literally give them the information. There are 1000's of other more offensive things, some of them mentioned here, going on in an average Target.
In my opinion, having words with the Beta male would have been pointless if not detrimental. An easy fix would be saying "hey little buddy, feeding babies is different than seeing naked gal and it is perfectly fine. Most of the time people would have a blanket or something they'd put over the baby but maybe they didn't have one, and the baby was hungry." I don't know your nephew but I'd bet pretty good money he'd probably say "oh," or "what are you talking about," because he was staring at toys.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 16:37:08 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 16:38:22 GMT -5
There seems to be a movement on FB about this. Where they compare a ton of other stuff that they claim is more offensive that feeding. It's like a bunch of feminist got together and decided to force feed (No pun) us this boos issues. YOU WILL LOOK AT BOOB WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT. Brings up an interesting consideration though, who determines if a boob is triggering enough to not be shown in public? You are disgusted by it fine, but then should we not allow open carry because of people disgusted by guns? Should we not allow meat to be eaten in public as to not disgust vegans? Should gingers be forced to wear burkas or hats as to not offend people who thing gingers steal souls? Instead, how about you just do what you can do yourself to avoid your triggers (I laugh knowing you are triggered by breasts now by the way). Look away. Just like if you don't like someone on TV you can't change the channel, you can turn your neck and look in a different direction. I laugh...actually I shake my head...at your trigger being any form of job application. Just saying.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 16:41:49 GMT -5
It's a fucking tit. Get over it and grow the fuck up, is how I look at it. Do you bitch about low cut shirts in the toy section? How about booty shorts? It's a fucking body and we all have one, they are nipples feeding a kid. Don't like it, look elsewhere. Don't want your kids to see icky things- keep them locked up! Otherwise you might have to actually have a discussion with a kid about appropriate responses and how to deal with a situation that you don't care for. Oh my fucking God?!? Sorry, but tits out are one of the last things anybody should worry about, and if they bug you, then it's your Hangup. It's funny, but nobody ever bitched about breastfeeding when I was around- but then again I'm just a 6' 240# beta at the time. All of the alpha tough guys must not have been around- cause I would love to have a discussion about how their pussy Alpha sensitivities were more important than my child's nutrition. By the way- the ex was discreet, but those covers (along with bottles and soothers) did not work with our kids- they wouldn't eat covered up. Difference between feeding a kid and "hey everybody watch me feed!" Aren't you the guy whose lady fucked some other dude while living with you and you bitched and moaned about how hard it was to find some new ass? And made a bunch of threads about you getting hugs and being the designated driver and all kinds of beta cuck bullshit? Yeah, sorry if I don't give 2 fucks about your opinion on this one. Didn't you actually sit down and have dinner with the guy? You say you are 6 foot and 240 of what? Pure pussy?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 16:45:08 GMT -5
I didn't know I logged into the liberal trigger forum. Directly to the point, kids of any age can handle seeing a baby breast fed. The number one thing I have learned about being a dad is that children are sponges for knowledge and they understand things better than we can if we literally give them the information. There are 1000's of other more offensive things, some of them mentioned here, going on in an average Target. In my opinion, having words with the Beta male would have been pointless if not detrimental. An easy fix would be saying "hey little buddy, feeding babies is different than seeing naked gal and it is perfectly fine. Most of the time people would have a blanket or something they'd put over the baby but maybe they didn't have one, and the baby was hungry." I don't know your nephew but I'd bet pretty good money he'd probably say "oh," or "what are you talking about," because he was staring at toys. Id have simply said, damn how about putting the boob away when kids are around. If dude had a problem we could have talked elsewhere about it. It's pretty simple really. If I dont feel something is appropriate when the younger children in my family are around, I'll say something.
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 16:51:28 GMT -5
I didn't know I logged into the liberal trigger forum. Directly to the point, kids of any age can handle seeing a baby breast fed. The number one thing I have learned about being a dad is that children are sponges for knowledge and they understand things better than we can if we literally give them the information. There are 1000's of other more offensive things, some of them mentioned here, going on in an average Target. In my opinion, having words with the Beta male would have been pointless if not detrimental. An easy fix would be saying "hey little buddy, feeding babies is different than seeing naked gal and it is perfectly fine. Most of the time people would have a blanket or something they'd put over the baby but maybe they didn't have one, and the baby was hungry." I don't know your nephew but I'd bet pretty good money he'd probably say "oh," or "what are you talking about," because he was staring at toys. Id have simply said, damn how about putting the boob away when kids are around. If dude had a problem we could have talked elsewhere about it. It's pretty simple really. If I dont feel something is appropriate when the younger children in my family are around, I'll say something. And here is the issue, why do you get to determine what is appropriate in public? Turn your fucking head if it bothers you, tell your kid to look away if you want.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 16:53:27 GMT -5
Id have simply said, damn how about putting the boob away when kids are around. If dude had a problem we could have talked elsewhere about it. It's pretty simple really. If I dont feel something is appropriate when the younger children in my family are around, I'll say something. And here is the issue, why do you get to determine what is appropriate in public? Turn your fucking head if it bothers you, tell your kid to look away if you want. Because I say so. And that's all you need to know. It's just respect for others is all. And when you don't have respect is when problems happen.
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 16:57:15 GMT -5
And here is the issue, why do you get to determine what is appropriate in public? Turn your fucking head if it bothers you, tell your kid to look away if you want. Because I say so. And that's all you need to know. It's just respect for others is all. And when you don't have respect is when problems happen. How is breastfeeding in public any less respectful than someone wearing white after labor day? Someone wearing a hat indoors? A man walking on the right side of a woman? Again, it subjective and fuck your liberal ass if you think your personal view is what others should live by.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 17:04:38 GMT -5
Because I say so. And that's all you need to know. It's just respect for others is all. And when you don't have respect is when problems happen. How is breastfeeding in public any less respectful than someone wearing white after labor day? Someone wearing a hat indoors? A man walking on the right side of a woman? Again, it subjective and fuck your liberal ass if you think your personal view is what others should live by. No wonder you can't get a job, you are really that fucking stupid. Pull your head out of your ass already. You comparisons are as goofy as your stupid looking ass. It's all about respect. I wouldn't subject someone else's kids to it out of respect and I feel the same repsect should be returned. Your opinions mean jack shit to me on this. You are not a contributing member of society, you are a leech. Tell me to go fuck myself? It's pretty nice when pussies get to talk shit behind a keyboard, isnt it?
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 17:05:47 GMT -5
How is breastfeeding in public any less respectful than someone wearing white after labor day? Someone wearing a hat indoors? A man walking on the right side of a woman? Again, it subjective and fuck your liberal ass if you think your personal view is what others should live by. No wonder you can't get a job, you are really that fucking stupid. Pull your head out of your ass already. You comparisons are as goofy as your stupid looking ass. Careful you don't walk by a mirror and get triggered by your nose.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 17:09:47 GMT -5
No wonder you can't get a job, you are really that fucking stupid. Pull your head out of your ass already. You comparisons are as goofy as your stupid looking ass. Careful you don't walk by a mirror and get triggered by your nose. I don't even know what the fuck that is supposed to mean. Are you drunk?
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 17:10:52 GMT -5
Careful you don't walk by a mirror and get triggered by your nose. I don't even know what the fuck that is supposed to mean. Are you drunk? It means, deal with fucking life, don't be a bitch.
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Post by peAk on Oct 4, 2016 17:13:08 GMT -5
excuse my ignorance on this subject because I have heard very little about it but just enough that it has "peAked" my interest....
is this whole "breastfeeding is bad" thing a liberal or conservative push?
and valetudo, while I don't stress much about women doing this in public around my kids, I do see where you are coming from. There are other things that bother me as a parent and I don't really want/care what other people think I should feel or not feel. It's tough enough being a parent without having to have other people tell you how you should or shouldn't feel.
I just think the "taboo" part of it is how we have been raised in America. Seeing boobs was always a no-no and just a sexual thing.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 17:15:01 GMT -5
I don't even know what the fuck that is supposed to mean. Are you drunk? It means, deal with fucking life, don't be a bitch. Coming from you, that is fucking golden... Like you've made me laugh out loud golden. You've got 14 bucks to your name, have talked many times about suicide and you are going to tell me to deal with life? Oh that is so good. Dealing with life isn't just going with the flow, sometimes it's going against the flow to get where you want to be. I don't want to see a boob in the toy section. Unless it's the adult toys section. I'll say something if I see it. Deal with it.
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