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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 17:16:33 GMT -5
excuse my ignorance on this subject because I have heard very little about it but just enough that it has "peAked" my interest....
is this whole "breastfeeding is bad" thing a liberal or conservative push?
and valetudo, while I don't stress much about women doing this in public around my kids, I do see where you are coming from. There are other things that bother me as a parent and I don't really want/care what other people think I should feel or not feel. It's tough enough being a parent without having to have other people tell you how you should or shouldn't feel.
I just think the "taboo" part of it is how we have been raised in America. Seeing boobs was always a no-no and just a sexual thing.
I don't mind it in public at all. Check the link I posted and see if you would be cool with that. I'm just asking for a little discretion and a little respect. That's all. I guess that is lost on some of the people here.
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Post by ocmmafan on Oct 4, 2016 17:31:06 GMT -5
With the advent of social media, I think people do shit in public so they can 1) have a confrontation and then tape it and talk about it; 2) post a photo/video on social media; 3) feel the need to attention whore. Breast feeding is a tough job and i feel for women, but common decency isn't that tough and there are plenty of ways to be more discreet.
I remember seeing two dudes obnoxiously making out in Chik-Fil-A with their two friends standing by with phones ready. They wanted someone to say something and were looking around while laughing. Do I think a family that goes to grab food needs to see that shit? No, I don't.
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Post by ocmmafan on Oct 4, 2016 17:33:18 GMT -5
I don't even know what the fuck that is supposed to mean. Are you drunk? It means, deal with fucking life, don't be a bitch. Did you plan on having the mother of your fictionally aborted child, fictionally breast feed him in a fictional store? Was that store Target?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 17:35:16 GMT -5
My wife is still breast feeding. We try to set up public trips between feeds but sometimes you have to feed in public. She uses the shoulder sheet thing as much as possible and if a restaurant is really crowded she will use a bathroom or our car at times. On flights and trips , most airports have feed stations. If we have to feed in a restaurant , we will face the back of the place near a bathroom and I will sit in view of her to further break up the sight lanes. On long car trips we stop at hotels and usually their dning lobbies are empty and we will have he feed in the back. I've never really felt that we have offended someone in public. Once on a fight our seats were moved and instead of sitting side by side in a two seat section as we booked ... We were moved to a three seat group . Thankfully , a 60 year old woman next to us and let my wife have the window so that she could feed as far from sight lanes as possible. Plenty of solutions available to avoid overt awkwardness . No one has been offended because you are doing the right thing and giving others some respect. I get it...a kid needs to eat when a kid needs to eat. And believe me, every decent human being appreciates you and your wife giving a little courtesy and repsect. I don't even expect a woman to go into a dirty restroom. I don't expect her to even fully cover up as some kids won't eat like that. It's the titty in the toy section that gets me.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 17:36:13 GMT -5
With the advent of social media, I think people do shit in public so they can 1) have a confrontation and then tape it and talk about it; 2) post a photo/video on social media; 3) feel the need to attention whore. Breast feeding is a tough job and i feel for women, but common decency isn't that tough and there are plenty of ways to be more discreet. I remember seeing two dudes obnoxiously making out in Chik-Fil-A with their two friends standing by with phones ready. They wanted someone to say something and were looking around while laughing. Do I think a family that goes to grab food needs to see that shit? No, I don't. Oh shit, some common sense. Thank you.
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 17:39:02 GMT -5
Fucking hell, if Vale and OCC get their liberal desires, nobody can kiss in public, hold hands, wear sandals, wear clothes with statements on them, eat meat, carry a gun/knife, and will be forced to whisper.
And people wonder what is wrong with the US and why it going downhill, people like them.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 17:44:47 GMT -5
Fucking hell, if Vale and OCC get their liberal desires, nobody can kiss in public, hold hands, wear sandals, wear clothes with statements on them, eat meat, carry a gun/knife, and will be forced to whisper. And people wonder what is wrong with the US and why it going downhill, people like them. Look at ya...farting in a bathtub, laughing your ass off.
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Post by Fasthands25 on Oct 4, 2016 17:52:43 GMT -5
Just gimme a sip and I'm cool wit it.
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Post by TitoOrtizIsAPunk on Oct 4, 2016 18:03:59 GMT -5
Fucking hell, if Vale and OCC get their liberal desires, nobody can kiss in public, hold hands, wear sandals, wear clothes with statements on them, eat meat, carry a gun/knife, and will be forced to whisper. And people wonder what is wrong with the US and why it going downhill, people like them. I think he just had a problem where she decided to do it. Target is a huge store, why not just walk over a few isles over to the women's section and maybe even a dressing room and do it there. Not in the kids toy section. And oc is talking about people kissing just to try and get a reaction and film it. Some people do things to get a rise out if others or get their 15 minutes of "fame" Common sense is not so common
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Post by ocmmafan on Oct 4, 2016 18:12:28 GMT -5
I hope asking about the aborted child is not considered an insult because I am keeping my "won't insult Jackel" streak alive through 2016. Posing questions are just that, questions. Will need a ruling from Vlad or TOIAP.
Like: Hey jackel, what the latest on the job search? And did you ever get the new pair of shoes?
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 18:19:58 GMT -5
Fucking hell, if Vale and OCC get their liberal desires, nobody can kiss in public, hold hands, wear sandals, wear clothes with statements on them, eat meat, carry a gun/knife, and will be forced to whisper. And people wonder what is wrong with the US and why it going downhill, people like them. I think he just had a problem where she decided to do it. Target is a huge store, why not just walk over a few isles over to the women's section and maybe even a dressing room and do it there. Not in the kids toy section. And oc is talking about people kissing just to try and get a reaction and film it. Some people do things to get a rise out if others or get their 15 minutes of "fame" Common sense is not so common And here is my issue. If someone is trying to get a reaction but they aren't hurting someone, or actively preventing someone from doing something, the person giving the reaction, it on them. You can choose to ignore, look another way, whatever. That is the wonderful thing about free-will, that thing Conservatives love. We can choose what to ignore, and we should use that ability because things we do others may take as much if not more offense than these two pansies here take to seeing a breast in public, and we don't want them to be able to say we can't do whatever bothers them in public, do we? Your safe spot is your property, leave that and you have to deal with people and accept it. Unless like Vale/OC you want a liberal dictatorship.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 18:57:11 GMT -5
It seems straight forward but is actually kind of complicated. I used to be fully against it, I used to say shitting is natural but you don't see me doing it in aisle 3. However, after having a kid my views have changed. Here are some of my thoughts.
- Bitches do thay shit some times for attention or shock value and post it to their Facebook page. Others are militant as shit about it. However, maybe a mom forgot her cover and had to do what she had to do. I'm not here to judge someone's intention so I would let it slide.
- It is perfectly legal so she has every right. You have every right to say something and her "beta" has every right to tell you to go fuck yourself or thank you for the advice.
- My wife would not do this in a thousand years, she would be mortified to have to pop out her titty so I support her. However, if she didn't mind letting it hang, it isn't beta to support her. You more than likely sucked a titty, the kid you were with probably sucked a titty, and your grandkids will probably suck titties.
- I agree with a certain amount of discretion, cover your boobies if at all possible after all it is common courtesy. If you can't, I won't be the one disgusted or or yelling at yku, I would be Jim Carrey on Me, Myself and Irene. Bitch would look down and see me with a milk mustache and a smile. If her titties were nice anf she was hot.
- I understand both sides but default to not giving a fuck because I don't know shit about that oerson's circumstances.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:24:27 GMT -5
Just gimme a sip and I'm cool wit it. That could be the most alpha shit I've ever heard.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:26:29 GMT -5
Fucking hell, if Vale and OCC get their liberal desires, nobody can kiss in public, hold hands, wear sandals, wear clothes with statements on them, eat meat, carry a gun/knife, and will be forced to whisper. And people wonder what is wrong with the US and why it going downhill, people like them. I think he just had a problem where she decided to do it. Target is a huge store, why not just walk over a few isles over to the women's section and maybe even a dressing room and do it there. Not in the kids toy section. And oc is talking about people kissing just to try and get a reaction and film it. Some people do things to get a rise out if others or get their 15 minutes of "fame" Common sense is not so common Yes. Titty shouldnt be in the toy section. Go over a few aisles. Hit the auto section if you want attention. Hit the dressing room area if you want privacy. Just keep it out of the area where there would likely be kids. That's it.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:27:32 GMT -5
I think he just had a problem where she decided to do it. Target is a huge store, why not just walk over a few isles over to the women's section and maybe even a dressing room and do it there. Not in the kids toy section. And oc is talking about people kissing just to try and get a reaction and film it. Some people do things to get a rise out if others or get their 15 minutes of "fame" Common sense is not so common And here is my issue. If someone is trying to get a reaction but they aren't hurting someone, or actively preventing someone from doing something, the person giving the reaction, it on them. You can choose to ignore, look another way, whatever. That is the wonderful thing about free-will, that thing Conservatives love. We can choose what to ignore, and we should use that ability because things we do others may take as much if not more offense than these two pansies here take to seeing a breast in public, and we don't want them to be able to say we can't do whatever bothers them in public, do we? Your safe spot is your property, leave that and you have to deal with people and accept it. Unless like Vale/OC you want a liberal dictatorship. Fuck...you got me. Guilty as charged boys.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:30:28 GMT -5
It seems straight forward but is actually kind of complicated. I used to be fully against it, I used to say shitting is natural but you don't see me doing it in aisle 3. However, after having a kid my views have changed. Here are some of my thoughts. - Bitches do thay shit some times for attention or shock value and post it to their Facebook page. Others are militant as shit about it. However, maybe a mom forgot her cover and had to do what she had to do. I'm not here to judge someone's intention so I would let it slide. - It is perfectly legal so she has every right. You have every right to say something and her "beta" has every right to tell you to go fuck yourself or thank you for the advice. - My wife would not do this in a thousand years, she would be mortified to have to pop out her titty so I support her. However, if she didn't mind letting it hang, it isn't beta to support her. You more than likely sucked a titty, the kid you were with probably sucked a titty, and your grandkids will probably suck titties. - I agree with a certain amount of discretion, cover your boobies if at all possible after all it is common courtesy. If you can't, I won't be the one disgusted or or yelling at yku, I would be Jim Carrey on Me, Myself and Irene. Bitch would look down and see me with a milk mustache and a smile. If her titties were nice anf she was hot. - I understand both sides but default to not giving a fuck because I don't know shit about that oerson's circumstances. I'm not gonna lie, I've peeked out the corner of my eye the few and rare times I've caught a hot titty out. Why not? But titty in the toy section? Yeah, I'm gonna say something. And I know how it sounds with the Beta comments...but look at dude in the link I am talking about and tell me I'm wrong. Once again, time and place. Respect goes a long ways.
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Post by kristhegreasedpig on Oct 4, 2016 19:34:45 GMT -5
It's a fucking tit. Get over it and grow the fuck up, is how I look at it. Do you bitch about low cut shirts in the toy section? How about booty shorts? It's a fucking body and we all have one, they are nipples feeding a kid. Don't like it, look elsewhere. Don't want your kids to see icky things- keep them locked up! Otherwise you might have to actually have a discussion with a kid about appropriate responses and how to deal with a situation that you don't care for. Oh my fucking God?!? Sorry, but tits out are one of the last things anybody should worry about, and if they bug you, then it's your Hangup. It's funny, but nobody ever bitched about breastfeeding when I was around- but then again I'm just a 6' 240# beta at the time. All of the alpha tough guys must not have been around- cause I would love to have a discussion about how their pussy Alpha sensitivities were more important than my child's nutrition. By the way- the ex was discreet, but those covers (along with bottles and soothers) did not work with our kids- they wouldn't eat covered up. Difference between feeding a kid and "hey everybody watch me feed!" Aren't you the guy whose lady fucked some other dude while living with you and you bitched and moaned about how hard it was to find some new ass? And made a bunch of threads about you getting hugs and being the designated driver and all kinds of beta cuck bullshit? Yeah, sorry if I don't give 2 fucks about your opinion on this one. Didn't you actually sit down and have dinner with the guy? You say you are 6 foot and 240 of what? Pure pussy? Good for you big guy!! And when people actually use frat terms like alpha and beta I take their opinion as same. Seriously- I'm a man, and as such I have responsibilities to my family. If giving my kids two stable happy homes makes me less of a man in your eyes- I don't give a fuck either!! I'm not led by some stupid fucking American machismo bullshit that seems to run your life. Yep- my ex fucked some dude in my bed after I was faithful for 15 years and it fucked me over. I'm not ashamed of it, and it had nothing to do with my response about tits in public. Great use of logical argument to counter my opinion. 👍👍 You win big guy.....😉😏
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:35:46 GMT -5
I think he just had a problem where she decided to do it. Target is a huge store, why not just walk over a few isles over to the women's section and maybe even a dressing room and do it there. Not in the kids toy section. And oc is talking about people kissing just to try and get a reaction and film it. Some people do things to get a rise out if others or get their 15 minutes of "fame" Common sense is not so common And here is my issue. If someone is trying to get a reaction but they aren't hurting someone, or actively preventing someone from doing something, the person giving the reaction, it on them. You can choose to ignore, look another way, whatever. That is the wonderful thing about free-will, that thing Conservatives love. We can choose what to ignore, and we should use that ability because things we do others may take as much if not more offense than these two pansies here take to seeing a breast in public, and we don't want them to be able to say we can't do whatever bothers them in public, do we? Your safe spot is your property, leave that and you have to deal with people and accept it. Unless like Vale/OC you want a liberal dictatorship. Showing an impressionable kid a titty is hurting them. It's taking some innocence from them. It not like it's thier mom's tit and they are used to seeing it out feeding thier lil siblings. It's a strangers. But hey, talk all the shit and call me all the names over the net all you want. You've got the protection of a keyboard. Which is pretty much why we have so much issue with racism these days...Lil punks can run thier mouths with no repurcussions.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:37:09 GMT -5
Aren't you the guy whose lady fucked some other dude while living with you and you bitched and moaned about how hard it was to find some new ass? And made a bunch of threads about you getting hugs and being the designated driver and all kinds of beta cuck bullshit? Yeah, sorry if I don't give 2 fucks about your opinion on this one. Didn't you actually sit down and have dinner with the guy? You say you are 6 foot and 240 of what? Pure pussy? Good for you big guy!! And when people actually use frat terms like alpha and beta I take their opinion as same. Seriously- I'm a man, and as such I have responsibilities to my family. If giving my kids two stable happy homes makes me less of a man in your eyes- I don't give a fuck either!! I'm not led by some stupid fucking American machismo bullshit that seems to run your life. Yep- my ex fucked some dude in my bed after I was faithful for 15 years and it fucked me over. I'm not ashamed of it, and it had nothing to do with my response about tits in public. Great use of logical argument to counter my opinion. 👍👍 You win big guy.....😉😏 My chick isn't sucking some other dude off in my own home...so yeah, I do win.
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Post by kristhegreasedpig on Oct 4, 2016 19:38:53 GMT -5
Holy shit! I just looked at the link and that's what you people call a tit out?!?
Fuck, really?
That's barely exposed, her chest is covered as are her shoulders. I don't think I've ever seen an openly breast feeding woman so covered up in real life. That's absolutely nothing to me, and isn't like she's all over the place with her tit either.
Wow!!
Mountains out of molehills....
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:39:13 GMT -5
Good for you big guy!! And when people actually use frat terms like alpha and beta I take their opinion as same. Seriously- I'm a man, and as such I have responsibilities to my family. If giving my kids two stable happy homes makes me less of a man in your eyes- I don't give a fuck either!! I'm not led by some stupid fucking American machismo bullshit that seems to run your life. Yep- my ex fucked some dude in my bed after I was faithful for 15 years and it fucked me over. I'm not ashamed of it, and it had nothing to do with my response about tits in public. Great use of logical argument to counter my opinion. 👍👍 You win big guy.....😉😏 My chick isn't sucking some other dude off in my own home...so yeah, I do win. But I can kind of see you as the dude in the link I posted so I think it does kind of have something to do with your response.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:40:13 GMT -5
Holy shit! I just looked at the link and that's what you people call a tit out?!? Fuck, really? That's barely exposed, her chest is covered as are her shoulders. I don't think I've ever seen an openly breast feeding woman so covered up in real life. That's absolutely nothing to me, and isn't like she's all over the place with her tit either. Wow!! Mountains out of molehills.... Titty dont need to be in the toy section. It's pretty simple logic.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 19:42:05 GMT -5
I never thought I would get straight shit talked to for saying I wasn't down with the titty in the toy section.
Some of you pussies are some straight bitches, jesus christ, grow a fucking pair and grab your sorry ass lives by the balls. Fuck.
There are a handful of you left that I feel I can even relate with.
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 19:59:47 GMT -5
I never thought I would get straight shit talked to for saying I wasn't down with the titty in the toy section. Some of you pussies are some straight bitches, jesus christ, grow a fucking pair and grab your sorry ass lives by the balls. Fuck. There are a handful of you left that I feel I can even relate with. See and here is the problem with putting your subjective view onto everyone else, we all think you are the bitch for having an issue with it.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 21:35:59 GMT -5
Lol, yeah that guy does look beta. I also can see your point Vale, I just don't care myself. My wife doesn't do it and I can see how some would be irritated.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 22:49:19 GMT -5
I never thought I would get straight shit talked to for saying I wasn't down with the titty in the toy section. Some of you pussies are some straight bitches, jesus christ, grow a fucking pair and grab your sorry ass lives by the balls. Fuck. There are a handful of you left that I feel I can even relate with. See and here is the problem with putting your subjective view onto everyone else, we all think you are the bitch for having an issue with it. We all? You got a couple frogs in your pocket kid? And do you think that I really care what some unemployed supposedly suicidal borderline pathological liar thinks about me? You'd NEVER..never say those opinions within ear shot of me so you think it matters what you think?
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 22:58:53 GMT -5
Lol, yeah that guy does look beta. I also can see your point Vale, I just don't care myself. My wife doesn't do it and I can see how some would be irritated. Like I've said over and over...anywhere but the one area that there are guaranteed to be kids at. It's just courtesy. For example...it's perfectly legal for me to pass gas in an elevator. It's a matter of respect whether or not I choose to be an asshole and do so
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 23:05:11 GMT -5
See and here is the problem with putting your subjective view onto everyone else, we all think you are the bitch for having an issue with it. We all? You got a couple frogs in your pocket kid? And do you think that I really care what some unemployed supposedly suicidal borderline pathological liar thinks about me? You'd NEVER..never say those opinions within ear shot of me so you think it matters what you think? I would and I have expressed those opinions. Like I said before, you don't know me. You live in fantasy land where you are the liberal dictator, and I don't put up with that shit in person you bitch.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 4, 2016 23:11:34 GMT -5
We all? You got a couple frogs in your pocket kid? And do you think that I really care what some unemployed supposedly suicidal borderline pathological liar thinks about me? You'd NEVER..never say those opinions within ear shot of me so you think it matters what you think? I would and I have expressed those opinions. Like I said before, you don't know me. You live in fantasy land where you are the liberal dictator, and I don't put up with that shit in person you bitch. No, you would shut your trap, look into your beer and wish you had the balls to speak your mind. I can read it on you clear as day. I know your type very well...the talkers...talk talk talk. Never act, never walk, just talk. So enjoy your ability to talk shit behind a keypad, because it's the only time you would and will ever be able to. Just keep that in mind next time you start throwing the word bitch around.
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Post by Angelo on Oct 4, 2016 23:25:06 GMT -5
I would and I have expressed those opinions. Like I said before, you don't know me. You live in fantasy land where you are the liberal dictator, and I don't put up with that shit in person you bitch. No, you would shut your trap, look into your beer and wish you had the balls to speak your mind. I can read it on you clear as day. I know your type very well...the talkers...talk talk talk. Never act, never walk, just talk. So enjoy your ability to talk shit behind a keypad, because it's the only time you would and will ever be able to. Just keep that in mind next time you start throwing the word bitch around. What a keyboard warrior bitch you are. You talk. I got a ticket to face Aminal, and he backed off, twice!. Come here, I'll tell you to your face you are scared of breasts you trigger happy liberal. edit: as you proved, all I have to do is take off my shirt and watch you cower in fear of some harmless nipples then knee you in the head as you cowering. Why? Because you are a scared bitch. Learn to love the nipple, maybe your partner would appreciate it and not be sleeping around behind your back then.
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