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Holy Fuck
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Post by Deleted on Oct 6, 2016 18:12:18 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that LA. Thoughts are with you. Fucking sucks...
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Post by Johnny on Oct 6, 2016 19:32:51 GMT -5
Sorry to hear that LA. I know we don't know each other at all other than random posts, but I've been there. 20 years ago lost my dad suddenly at age 16. You've always been a very cool guy around here and if ya need any advice, feel free man. All the best to you and your fam.
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Post by Hunter on Oct 6, 2016 20:44:31 GMT -5
Very sorry to hear that. Stay strong my brother. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
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Post by HankPNW on Oct 7, 2016 0:28:11 GMT -5
Fuck that sucks man. So sorry for your loss LA. Sounds like you guys had an amazing relationship.
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Post by purerockfury on Oct 7, 2016 3:15:09 GMT -5
Very sorry to hear.
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Post by Faydee on Oct 7, 2016 6:47:48 GMT -5
I was reading that hoping he was going to wake up until he didn't, make sure of take care of yourself and your loved ones in this tough time... you are going to get sick of people saying "I'm sorry" it is only because there aren't any better words for some people to say and they don't know what to say. I always tell people to remember the good times and it sounds to me like you are. Hug you family keep them close, do something to celebrate his life, I didn't know him but I am betting he would smack you ( in a loving way) if you were sitting around being all worthless about it. *hugs* keep on keeping on Old Man RIP
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Post by fengshui on Oct 7, 2016 12:37:20 GMT -5
Stay strong. Like someone else said don't try to be too strong. All that "man up" shit is just that shit. Always remember to enjoy the memories.
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Post by Spencer on Oct 10, 2016 10:16:20 GMT -5
So sad to read this man, very sorry for your loss. I haven't been through this myself yet and I can't imagine how difficult it must be. We're all here for you.
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Post by Premier on Oct 10, 2016 10:30:12 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss LA. Sucks when these things happen to good people like you.
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Post by Makalu G on Oct 11, 2016 17:44:22 GMT -5
Holy fuck is right. Sorry man. Wow...
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Post by daywork on Oct 11, 2016 18:02:39 GMT -5
Very sorry for your loss. I do remember him playing fantasy fighting. No words will ease your pain, all I can say is Sorry.
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Post by Fasthands25 on Oct 12, 2016 1:10:25 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss man... My condolences.
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Post by Elissa on Oct 12, 2016 7:45:01 GMT -5
Oh man, I am so sorry Words aren't enough to convey my condolences. You're right though - you ARE strong and you WILL get through this. However, if you need a friend to talk to, you know where to find me. Love you dude.
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Post by Lord Abortion on Oct 13, 2016 1:59:57 GMT -5
Well, figured I'd update you guys. I haven't been around at all since the last post so I figured I should pop in and let you all know how I am.
I accepted his death very fast. When I made this thread, or especially the follow up post, I had accepted it. People warned me that the initial strength would go away. I assumed it would too but here it is a week later and I feel stronger, not weaker. What you realize pretty quick is that it's the little shit that catches you off guard that hurts the most. His death and the immediate aftermath are things I accepted and dealt with well. I didn't do it to be strong, I did it to be strong for my mom and my kid.
The stuff that'll just cripple you are the unexpected things. First one I can remember is going to make coffee a couple mornings later. He had this coffee scoop that he FREAKED out if it was missing. The scoop was in my bag of coffee. I just sank the fucking floor and cried for like half an hour. He absolutely loved these shitty Banquet chicken TV dinners. He made one before he went to lay down the night he died. He never got to eat it. That thought fucking shreds me inside for whatever reason. Also, and this one is WEIRD but I guess grief does that, it was in his room after the dust had settled. I was going to eat it since it was made like 8-9 hours ago. I just stared at it and cried for a couple hours. I... uh... I still fucking have it. It's a week old and absolutely disgusting. I know I should get rid of it but I can't for some reason.
I made all the arrangements (it's all about fuckin' ARRANGE-MENTS!) but there really weren't any. He really, really didn't want a funeral. Wasn't sure if the family would want to go against his wishes but they ultimately didn't. Him and my mom were just having this super serious discussion like a month ago... well, she was serious, anyway... and she was like, "When we go, what do you want Scotty to do with your remains?" and he was like, "My... remains? ... I don't know, just throw 'em in a dumpster or some shit." and mom got so pissed while he exaggerated his laughter in her face to make her even madder. Dude lived for that kind of shit.
This is super hard but I'm going to be ok. I'm not going to bullshit any of you though. Hell, you guys know me, it'd be hard to bullshit you. I've been doing A LOT of drugs since this happened. My friends are pretty much just doping me up on a daily basis.
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Post by Faydee on Oct 13, 2016 2:52:57 GMT -5
you know if you need to talk we are all here for you LA, i cant really imagine what you are going through because i never really knew my dad divorced when i was 7 so we had no relationship at all. like i said before hold on to the good memories, it is a way to keep him alive in your heart!
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Post by slaytan on Oct 13, 2016 4:09:45 GMT -5
I would have commented sooner but got all choked up. Hope you're dong good LA
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Post by PatSox on Oct 13, 2016 9:15:59 GMT -5
I would have commented sooner but got all choked up. Hope you're dong good LA Can't speak from first hand knowledge, but I have every reason to believe his dong is fine
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Post by Tapout on Oct 13, 2016 9:23:01 GMT -5
I would have commented sooner but got all choked up. Hope you're dong good LA Can't speak from first hand knowledge, but I have every reason to believe his dong is fine Grief is a powerful aphrodisiac.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 13, 2016 17:44:53 GMT -5
Considering that H is terrible for your erections, his dong is either doing really good or really bad, depending on your point of view.
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